March ended like a lion. On Monday Stevens woke up vomiting. Paramedics took him to the ER where, after many tests, they found a bowel obstruction. No surgery required but he is still in the hospital. I visited yesterday. He perked up when he saw me. Not sure when he will be discharged and to where. More discussion with hospital social worker and a care consultant today. (The hospital is in the same complex as the clinic where his doctor's office is, so his own physician has been to see him.) Meanwhile V was so helpful. While I was sitting with S in the ER she cleaned up thoroughly. And I had a lovely surprise phone call last evening from Jean, S's first wife (she's in assisted living in New Hampshire).
I've been so alert to S for so long that it's odd to be in the house by myself.
I didn't have to rush back from Tuesday's Zion Woman's Club meeting. We planted pinwheels to recognize Child Abuse Prevention Month.
On to quilting!
I used orphan blocks to make five more placemats.
Stash report: March fabric in: ZERO! March fabric out: 86 yardsYTD fabric in: 164-3/4, $58.00. YTD fabric out: 274 yards. Yay!
April goals: (1) make Sky Diamonds, the Running Doe topalong this month. I'm going to use realistic florals and green.
(2) Finish the doll quilt for the Humble Quilts swap. (It's a flimsy. I have to choose the backing and figure out how to quilt it.)
(3) Make a batch of teal/turquoise blocks (RSC color) for a wheelchair-sized quilt.
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The Page Turner 2025 FB group has "a book on someone else's shelf" as a prompt. I did not travel far for my selection. This is one of my husband's favorite books. It's been in his bookcase ever since I met him . . . and only now have I read it in its entirety. Poet and memoirist Donald Hall writes evocatively and lovingly about the summers he spent on his grandparents' farm in New Hampshire. Each chapter can stand alone; collectively they show the progression as Hall grows up and his grandparents grow older. The 1979 edition includes a coda that tells what happened next -- Hall and his wife Jane Kenyon moved to the farm in 1975 after his grandmother passed away (at 96) and lived there the rest of their lives. (Kenyon died in 1995 and Hall died in 2018.)
[The farmhouse is now a historic property with a nonprofit board restoring and maintaining it.]
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An intriguing story based on the life of the champion thoroughbred Lexington. I enjoyed the multiple points of view -- Lexington's trainer in the 1850's, an art dealer in the 1950's, and the contemporary art historian and the Smithsonian scientist. I listened to the audio version. The multi-voiced narration was easy to follow.
Diann (Little Penguin Quilts) recommended this a while back. Thanks, Diann!
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I've been an Anne Tyler fan for decades. Her characters are spot-on -- people we know all too well, situations we are all too familiar with.
Just before her daughter's wedding Gail Baines finds out that she has lost her long-time job as assistant to the headmistress of a private school. She barely has time to adjust to that shock when her ex-husband Max shows up at her door. He explains that he can't stay at their daughter's house because he is fostering a cat and the fiance is allergic to cats. What can Gail do but ask him in? Both of them have always been socially awkward whereas the fiance's family is very polished and more affluent. Gail and Max negotiate the social terrain, their daughter's pre-wedding nerves (or, remarkable lack of them), and in so doing Gail remembers how they met and why they split up. And in the end . . . she has a cat and, maybe, a renewed relationship.
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Linking up with Wednesday Wait Loss OMG @ Stories from the Sewing Room
I'm so sorry to hear that you and Stephens are dealing with more on top of everything else. Sending you hugs! Love the florals for your April quilt top. Wishing you some therapy time this week! Your book choice from his shelf sounds interesting - I wonder if it would be available from our library - I'll have to go look. Looking forward to reading the Anne Tyler book!
ReplyDeleteWhat great book reviews! I'll have to look them up. Wonderful idea to use your orphans to make placemats. Thanks for sharing on my weekly show and tell, Wednesday Wait Loss.
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So sorry that Stevens is having additional issues. How stressful for you both. Good thing you have sewing and reading to take your mind away from it all for a little bit. Take care of you.
ReplyDeleteWow, no fabric in? I had the same occurrence in January. I hope you will find a good resolution for Stevens future.
ReplyDeleteOh, gosh, I'm sorry you have more to deal with. I'm glad you have a strong social network. Thanks for the book recommendations.
ReplyDeleteSorry to hear about Steven;s Obstruction; [my DH went through 6 years of those off and on==finally he found that if he takes Miralax every few days they haven't occurred again--just a thought for the future]--
ReplyDeleteWOW 86 yds out in March--that is amazing!! Take care and I hope things straighten out for you both...
Hugs x2 Julierose
oh nann...a challenging week for sure...hope he is better soon and things get sorted...so happy you had a bit of a respite...on the list for 'three days' but not yet available for my kindle...the new hampshire book sounds interesting...sort of like gladys taber's stillmeadow???
ReplyDeleteI'm so sorry to hear about Stevens's challenges just now. Hard for him, maybe harder for you and his other care-givers. I hope you find a comfortable place for him where he's happy and so are you.
ReplyDeleteYour placemats will brighten meals for several people!
I was hoping that our library would have String too short to be saved but it doesn't. It sounds interesting. I reserved Horse.
I hope things calm down for you and Stevens and that an appropriate placement can be found. Such a distressing time for both of you. I put the Anne Tyler title on my TBR list as soon as I saw it's pub date.
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This isn't the less stressful week I was hoping you and your husband would have, huh? At least he isn't having to have an operation!
ReplyDeleteAs always I especially enjoy your book reviews - there was a copy of "String Too Short To Be Saved" at a vacation house we rented and I didn't read it, now regretting. But I did get on the list at the library for the Tyler book. It's a weird phenomenon there, a book that has a few hundred reservations on the regular print copy will have only 20 or so on the large print book. As far as I can tell the actual word count is the same, the large print book is just heavier and it IS easier for me to read.
Hopefully Stevens is recovering well and you have a path forward. It's good you've got some stitching and a few good books as distractions from all the stress. Hopefully spring really takes over soon, we seem to be in the phase where you have to check the weather app to know what jacket to put on before heading out.
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